In this classical treatise, Ibn Rajab (may Allah have mercy on him) discusses the differences between advising and condemning, which is an extremely important topic since it is very common that the two are confused for one another.
All the hearts of the offspring of Aadam are between two fingers of Ar-Rahman’s Fingers, as one heart. He turns it (in any direction) as He wills.
And there are specific things that we may be doing in our lives that may harden our hearts. It could be the way you talk to your parents…
The example of a good companion and an evil companion is like that of a seller of musk and a blacksmith.
… During their holidays, all they do is drink and go to a night club. That’s there lifestyle. Can you imagine doing that everyday?
Thank Allah for the unseen and evident blessings He bestowed upon you.